How do I get my mother to stop smoking in the house? -
How do I get my mother to stop smoking in the house? -
First I have to start off with both my mother and I are on the mortgage, but my boyfriend and I pay for the home.We all smoked in the home until this past Sept when I found out I was pregnant. Both my boyfriend and I quit, and my mother was told to smoke outside (the smell made me sick) She smoked outside for a while but by winter she stopped all together.I have told her about the smoking in the home but she think cause she smokes in HER room it-s ok. Well now the baby is here, she will smoke outside during the day. But by 5pm she starts to smoke in her room again. The whole house smells and I can-t get her to stop. It-s just down right rude of her, she knows the house smells and the baby is breathing in that smokey air. Does any one know how I can handle this legally? Selling the home or buying my mother out is not an option at this time..Unless your mother just recently started smoking, it didn-t harm you any growing up. Your child will be fine too. If you let it. We have enough paranoia in the world already. It has to stop somewhere.trying to convince your mum its better to have your boyfriends name on the mortgaga so she can spend her old age in freedom and move out and let your baby,her grandchild NOT be a victim of second-hand smoke cancer and other serious conditions,She has to know SHE is a risk for his health,why not try to have some family-doc come over and talk some sense into your mother,your mum sound like a selfish ***** to me and your kid is better off without herEncourage her to smoke outside your fence. Second hand smoke is harmful for her Grand child.Take her with you to the baby-s doctor.She needs to be convinced of the harm she could be doing to her grandchild.
Why is there no choice about about the home arraingment? If she is not paying the mortgage, but you are, then you can certainly look at options (some good, some bad) that will change the situation.
Is the health of your child less important than your credit rating?
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