My girlfriend wont stop smoking marijuana? -
My girlfriend wont stop smoking marijuana? -
I told her I really don-t like that kinda stuff but she says that she can-t help it. She tried to stop smoking for one month but was drawn back.any ideas on what i can say to her that might help her quit?Its not so much the marijuana, but the person. Its their mind set, whatever they want to do, they will do. Just tell her how you really feel, and if you can-t be with her because she is doing it, then leave. I had to do that before, it sucks but now I am much happier!I don-t know what to say except that about 15% of the population finds pot addictive and she seems to be one of them. For them, stopping pot can be like giving up cigarettes for others -- pretty damn hard. I know some people who have done it, but you really have to want to.this may be offensive but you should try marijuana there are no siriouse long term affects it none addicting and its impossible to OD and the penealty in most states is very minimul but to help her stop i would show her more things in life for a womenNeed more information??? Did you know that she smoked Chiba before you started dating her??? What does it do to her can she not do work the right way, or not study, can she not make friends, spends too much money on it??? Why is there a huge problem with her smoking does it change her dramatically??? Before I can give you an answer to your question I would need more details on the issue. Also how long has she smoked and how much? I used to smoke too and have recently quit but to give you a good answer to fit your specific situation more details would be great. Oh and did you ever smoke and if so does she know that?You ought to consider the fact that your girlfriend might not want to quit. Although it is illegal in the United States, marijuana is not as dangerous as many make it out to be. In addition, it is not addictive -- at least not in a physical sense. If anything, it may cause a psychological dependency. Although this may be of concern, one must realize that these kind of -addictions- occur all the time and aren-t necessarily dangerous. I know several people who won-t miss a week of Grey-s Anatomy, or want to go golfing whenever they can... but this doesn-t mean they-re destroying their lives because of it. Your girlfriend might be in a similar situation. Marijuana use might be something that she enjoys, and she-s able to engage in it without causing a lot of harm to herself. If this is the case, you should question your motives as to why you want her to quit.
If it is effecting your relationship, I think that is a valid concern and you should let her know how you feel and why. If she still continues her use regardless, then that might be a sign that she-s not the one for you. On the other hand, if her marijuana use isn-t really effecting the way she interacts with you, just let her know that you-d prefer if she didn-t do it around you. You may find that this is the best solution, because any time you question someone else-s preferences and friends, you-re treading on dangerous territory.
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