To stop smoking??? -
To stop smoking??? -
my boy friend wants to stop smoking but he doenst know how to stop and i dont really know how to help him stop soo what should he do??? and ideas?? thanks~Tell him to research the resolved questions for the last week and 1/2 and find the last question about how to quit and read my answer.It was chosen #1.I smoked for 16 years. I have now been smoke free for 9 months. This is what I did:
1: I use nicorette Cinnamon surge nicotine gum. It tastes great. I used the 4mg, because I used to smoke more than 25 cigs a day.
2: every time I would feel the urge to smoke, I would pull out a piece of that gum and say to myself - its time for a smoke-, then chew the gum. I would concentrate on the tingling feeling that the gum makes between my cheek and gum, and associate the slight burning sensation with the fact that I was getting my nicotine fix.
3: I started finding more time to do things that I used to not have when I wasted it smoking, so I started to do new hobbies and exercised more.
4: You have to admit to yourself that you are basically in this mess for the long run. Yes, you are going to feel miserable for a few weeks. Yes, you are going to crave a cig. Yes, you are going to question why you quit. But then the money starts to stack up in your pocket, you can breathe again, and you realize that the misery is over in a few weeks. Life still goes on, everything works out.
5: This is the biggest one. Have him go to -why quit.com-. Joel has some great things to tell you, and it was the best inspiration I have ever had. This website is the reason I was able to quit smoking after all those years.
Good luck! And remember...never take another puff!!!!!
http://whyquit.com/
Try to get more information regarding some ways to stop smoking at my profile.tell him to stop buying cigarettes...Perhaps he should join a Quit Smoking Clinic.I smoked for many years. I have been quit now for almost 7 years. I tried many times to quit, and failed until I called the american cancer society. I didn-t have cancer. They gave this number 1-800-nobutts. I talked to a counselor on the phone and was sent a packet which helped me design a step by step approach to quitting. It was amazing. Please to your boyfriend to call that number. Everyone I know who made that call was able to quit successfully. Good luck.it-s really hard, i know (i quit in October last year, after many attempts) he needs a good motivation (mine was i am pregnant), like for his health? he has to focus on this.
also, cut down on milligrams - if he-s smoking 12 milligram ciggarettes, next pack he buys has to be the next step down (here in Australia it-s 8mg, then 6mg, etc). only buy one pack for each step until he-s down to the lowest available strength. thats a GREAT start.
Then, make smoking inconvenient and uncomfortable... no smoking in the house, he has to go outside, and ALONE, he may not be around anyone when he smokes - that means leaving the house/ club/ pub, etc to smoke. and no smoking in the car - make no smoke zones.
Also, if he keeps his ciggarettes somewhere inconvenient like in the car - he has to go and get a ciggarette from the car every time (and no grabbing more than one, like one for later, thats cheating).
and most importantly, a craving will only last 60 seconds. when he gets a physical craving, he should tell himself this, and this will help as he knows it has a time limit for how long it can torture him.
I went to a hypnotherapist (surprisingly effective, but $200AU) and the above methods. and now i-m smoke free! hurrah!he can call the local hospital and check on a smoking cessation class or talk to the doc. i-m trying to quit right now too. first thing i did was stop smoking in the house. that caused a huge decrease in the amount i smoke per day. next, no more smoking in the car. that-s another big chunk out of the way. when he gets his smoking down to the minimum he can do on his own, the doc can prescribe chantix. its a new drug available to help you quit. his doc can give him all the info about it or you can check their website. thay also offer helplines.Hey there, so there is this great product out there by “NewReality Life” that helped me stop smoking, and I haven’t had a single cigarette in over a year! This little device/mp3 player thing works on the Mind-Body connection thing they talk about in the book “The Secret.” This company seems to have been using that technology before the best-selling book did, and the designing psychologist supposedly pioneered the philosophy. This cool little portable device addresses your desire to smoke, and works with you to end your smoking addiction, not like those stupid hypnosis tapes that NEVER work. Plus you get these really cool little LED glasses which are unbelievably relaxing! You should check it out; they also do stuff like weight loss and stress reduction too!! Their website is www.newrealitylife.comQuitting smoking is NOT hard. The physical cravings are actually embarrassingly easy to fight. All that is required is that you want to quit smoking. That’s all. No tricks, no gimmicks, nothing else to buy. You just have to want to stop smoking. That’s it.
Tell him to just keep reminding himself the following:
You don’t have anything to lose: Except the foul smelling, disgusting tasting cloud of evil that is cigarette smoking and nicotine addiction.
You have nothing to FEAR: Fear is what stops most people from taking on the demon. Do NOT be afraid, the physical ‘cravings’ that you feel will NOT kill you, in fact, they really are barely noticeable.
Stopping smoking is almost purely psychological. But you have the ammunition to shoot down the demon every time it rears its ugly head.
This is the very worst it can do! It can’t actually hurt you. You are in control here. You are too strong and you will be able to overpower it armed with the facts.
You have a whole lot to regain: Freedom from ever having to feed the demon in conditions that in themselves could be hazardous to your health, freedom from the stench, freedom from clouds of poisonous gas that surround you when you light up, freedom from ever having to deal with the horrific diseases that it causes and painful, frightening early death.
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Good luck, I-ve been there.it-s mind over matter.
if he wants to stop it he can.
his addiction doesn-t force him to go out and buy ciggarettes.
he just has to deal.