How Do I Get Her To Stop? -
How Do I Get Her To Stop? -
I have horrible asthma and when I-m in a place where someone has been smoking or is smoking my throat starts burning and I start wheezing. The problem is, my mom started smoking recently. Nobody that lives with me has smoked all my life and my mom used to be very strict about other people smoking near me. But now, she does herself. I tell her to stop smoking near me but she doesn-t seem to care. She even allows her friends to smoke in our house. I know smoking is her personal choice, but how to I get her to stop doing it around me?WOW.
I think she has some sort of problem to smoke around her kid, when she knows it is such a problem. I mean she is risking your life, and she doesnt care.
Sit her down, you have to. Ask her why she doesnt care anymore, and ask her -WHAT IF- something bad does happen some day and i die from this, would you care. And if her answer is no and she still does it, I think you should stay with friends or other family.You should ask her to stop smoking around you and remind her of the issue of your asthma. Try to explain that it really bugs you when she smokes inside and when she allows her friends to do the same. Yes smoking is her choice, that doesn-t mean she has to force it upon you. If it is that big of a deal you might try to step outside, but I don-t think its fair for YOU to have to go outside. I hope this helps you some, best of luck to you :)Just talk to her about, that it-s becoming very hard to breath or even be around you, ask her if she has the urge to smoke she can do it outside instead of inside. If she really loves you she would listen instead of being a retarded mom. :DWhat you do is when she-s smoking around you and you to are alone, do your regular wheezing, but a little more then pretend to pass out on the floor, she-ll take you to the hospital and the doctor will tell her its harming you and her.First of all; in my opinion thats messed up.
But just get all serious and tell her she can not do that! maybe buy her a new ashtray and ask her to do it outside. seriosly its not a big deal to walk a few steps out the door.I am so sorry i feel bad but every time she smokes just go some where, where she isn-t around or step outside if you need to get some fresh air or talk to your dad about this.look up all the bad things about smoking and she will feel guilt and try to stop then suggest using patches that help to stop smoking
I really think the best thing you could do is just leave
when shes doing that around youask her to stop. also, go outside when she doesmaybe she started smoking to get you to move outgeesh, I don-t know, sorry kid.
if I think of something I will come back to answertell her again, or walk away if she dosen-t respond.
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