Would he stop smoking? -
Would he stop smoking? -
Ive been in a relationship with a man who -gets high-. He said hes gna quit soon but I-m not sure if hes dieing or not. What should I do?Need more info. What do you mean you-re not sure if he-s dying...dying of what? Gets high on what? He smokes weed?Personally, I don-t think weed is a big deal. I wouldn-t tolerate any other drugs and I think alcohol abuse is far worse than getting high on marijuana. But, there are people for whom marijuana is absolutely intolerable and a deal breaker.
You have to decide where you stand. You can-t change him and he won-t quit until he wants to. No amount of pressure, pleading, coaxing, etc. will make him change. I wouldn-t count on him quitting. A lot of people who smoke enjoy it and don-t see the need to quit, though some do. My husband and I did. I have friends who have, and friends who still smoke. You have to decide if you want to take your chances that he-ll eventually quit and you want to wait. Or you leave. If it-s any other drug, you should leave, as other drugs are highly addictive and he will not be able to just quit and will probably need help.
You don-t say how long you-ve been in the relationship or how important it is to you. Really not a lot of information to give advice on here.
Hope I helped somewhat. Good luck.
EDIT: Well, if you meant lying, like I said I wouldn-t count on him to quit just because he says he will. So, you just have to decide what you really want!He wont. i was with this guy for 2 1/2 years keep telling me he would. Just like he keep telling me he would get a job! each time i believed him and was like he really means it this time! well broke it off 6 months ago he still hasnt changed!!!dump him staright if your not more important than his smoking then he aint worth it.. plus its grossHe-s a doper, move on.drop him like a stone rrrr