How do I help my boyfriend stop smoking? -
How do I help my boyfriend stop smoking? -
I just got the greatest bf in the world and we are now getting engaged but he smokes, and it really scares me because I know how bad that can be on your health. I couldn-t live if I lost him. We are both young, he-s 16 I-m 15, He-s been smoking about 3 years. He used to smoke 40 a day, now he-s met me he-s on two - five. How do I encourage him to stop? I cry sometimes at the thought of loosing him so what can I do to help. I-m in school and he-s in college so we dnt have much money for patches yet. But I really do not think he-s very addicted because he-s cut down miles in just 2 months, I-ve spoken to him and He wants to quit for me, so I need to know how to support him 100%More than likely he-ll dirt nap before you even finish school. So I would start dating a little -on the side- so that you can line-up the next one before you can him or he bites it. Maybe put him, the drug-addicted ex-boyfriend, MJ, NJ, a horse, a BLACK cat and some hay on your trampoline, then light it on fire with all his cigarettes. That should take care of business.tell him how much better he will be able to breath and stand by him , let him know that you are there for him. Go with him to go get help.break all of his cigsGood on you for being worried about your bf. This is a tough situation because at the end of the day it is his choice to whether or not he quits smoking.All you can do is keep trying to convince him. Smokers are stubborn people (I know because I used to be one of them).
Let him know how much you love him. Let him know the pain you will all go through if you were to lose him. Putting your bf through a big guilt trip is a hard thing to do but it may be your only option.
If you can, try to guide him to our blog. It has some really great ideas and information. This may help to convince him.
Don-t listen to those who say stop trying. Never stop trying, if you quit then he sure as hell won-t.
Best of luck
Ps I don-t mean to get involved in your personal life but hold of on the engagement. Live your teenage years as a teenager, you have the rest of your life to be an adult.
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