How can I get my 13 year old girlfriend to quit smoking? -
How can I get my 13 year old girlfriend to quit smoking? -
Well, we are 13. We have been dating for 7 months and she smokes. She has been smoking for a while, She did for one year because she was friends with her best friend, they stopped being friends for a year and she hasn-t smoked.At the beginning of the school year they became friends again and she started smoking again.
We got in a huge fight a while back about her smoking.
I keep telling her to stop and find another way to get rid of her stress. We got in another fight last night.
She said she doesn-t know how, I don-t either.
She says that I don-t understand how much stress she has.
And then I told her that there are many other kids out there that have it worse than you, yet they don-t smoke.
I told her that I-m a guy that actually cares about her enough to try and get her to stop messing up her life.
A while back she promised me that she would stop smoking by Summer and I asked her last night if she was going to follow through on the promise and she said it depends if she has drama going. Does anyone know anyways to get her to stop smoking? It-s very irritating when she says I don-t understand why she smokes. I don-t because I-m a smart kid and I learned that every person that smokes as a child and grows up regrets starting to smoke as a child.
Please, someone. I need advice on what to do or what to tell her to get her to stop. She also said that she has been addicted and stopped before so I don-t know if she can or can-t stop.
She-s told me that one of her problems is that when she was 6 years old her mom asked her if she should leave her dad and she said yes because she wanted her mom to stop drinking and for them to stop fighting so they did split up.
I would also like to let you guys know that her mother is the first one that got her started on cigarettes. So her mom won-t do anything. Her mom has also been smoking since she was 9 years old.She only promised you, to keep you from complaining. You knew she smoked, you went out with her. Now deal with it. If you didn-t like her smoking, go out with a nun.
She should just drop kick you out the door. She doesn-t need whine buckets dragging her down.nicotine patch.. 13 y/o you are so young.. don-t let her see other people smoking.. bec if she is, the urge of smoking is there.. or give her some juicy stuff.. check my site.. =)this isn-t going to answer your question, but i think you are SUCH a nice kid.ur so kewl! can i email u? well any way do anything u can. 13 is so young! im young 2 (12) but if she smokes she can get in 2 so many other things! do any do anything! hypnotism, begging, taking her cigarettes, taking her money! just stop her! ur so nice for trying!If you really care about her i suggest you tell one of her RESPONSIBLE adult figures. You could also tell your school counseler. And if you really cant take it break up with her. If she wants to ruin her life. Fine. After a while if she keeps going she will get you into it. and trust me you dont want that. My mom and my Grandma smoke. and its horrible.I-m so glad that you asked this question. You are such a smart kid! My main advice to you would call a break or break up with her. I know that you-re still going to have feelings with her. She needs to have a wake-up call, though. She may need to realize that she can lose things from smoking starting with you. She-s going to end up losing her mother, more friends, and possibly her own life. I hate that you-re in this situation!Have her listen to i-doser, don-t know if it will work but might as well try. Make sure she follows the instructions for it carefully.Your girlfriend is a smoker. Get off her back about it, or get another girlfriend.please, please, PLEASE do everything you can to get her to stop smoking! I lost a friend to lung cancer because she smoked cigarettes for a long time and believe me, its unbearable to think I could have been more persistent in getting her to stop smoking.my friend was only 17 years old. I don-t want you to go through the same pain I have.
tell her that if she doesn-t stop smoking now then she has an extremely HIGH chance of getting lung cancer.or she could get some other respiratory disease. she will start to smell like smoke (if she doesn-t already) and that is a definite turn-off for people, have ugly coughing fits, start to get wrinkles, and other scary stuff. she-s still so young, and quite frankly, stupid. she-s literally KILLING herself with each cigarette, whether you or her wants to believe it or not. if talking to her about the disgusting effects they have on her fails, then act desperate.
tell her you-ll leave her if she doesn-t stop.
or, if you-d rather not take that road, then just take action!
if you find a cigarette box in her room or even one cigarette lying around, throw it away in a trash can or dumpster away from her home. check to make sure she isn-t hiding them anywhere. ask all of your friends that if they see her with a cigarette, to snatch it away from her and throw it away or throw some water on it (this makes the cig unsmokeable) or make everyone ignore her at school and outside of school because she-s smoking. when she asks why you guys are doing that tell her that you don-t want to associate with someone who-s killing themselves and that you-re only doing it because you love her. okay, maybe the last one is a little extreme, but it MIGHT work.
sure, she-ll get mad, but at least she won-t have a cigarette in her mouth.
I hope I helped.....good luck!take her to bodyworlds with you if it ever happens in your town.
they show like real lungs with a lugn thats infected from smoking and a lung thats clean... or take her to the hospital and show her people who have lugn cancer from smoking... i hope she quits!
but if she doesnt, than you need to realize that shes choosing you over the ciggarettes. you-re only 13 once. make the right choice and move on if you have to! i hope everything goes well!best of luck.
--i agree with the other personn, you are nicee.
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