How do I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed? -

How do I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed? -

Ive been with him for almost 2 and a half years, and hes only started smoking weed recently. Its cigarettes all over again. He started smoking cigarettes because all of his friends did and claimed he only smoked with them.. then he said he only smoked at parties.. and that turned into weekends.. which turned into a bad habit of smoking every single day.

You see, all of his friends smoke medical marijuana and are always trying to convince him how its not bad and how it helps all of them. So hes become obsessed with learning every single little fact he can about every drug. I think its great that he-s so knowledgeable on the subject, but its led him to start smoking weed because he says its not bad like everything else. He likes the way he feels high so hes been doing it more and more often.

He knows I hate it. Ive always tolerated it with our friends, but the fact that hes doing it is making want to jump off the deep end! He simply turns to his friends for advice about it and they encourage him to -deal- with me and he shouldn-t let me try to -change- him. Yet theyre the ones changing him! He used to be so against smoking anything. Now hes become the biggest hypocrite of all.

I can-t stand sitting back and watching this addiction grow. Im also afraid he-ll move on to other drugs..what can I do?find a new boy friend. why ask any one to change. you need to find someone you can accept how they are.get rid o himYour boyfriend is a pot-head, it isn-t the end of the world. I know it can be annoying, but its not a dangerous drug or anything. It definitely doesn-t mean he-s going to move on to other drugs. It-s better than having a drinking problem, that-s for sure. I don-t know how old you guys are, but weed can make teenage guys grow breasts. Scaring him out of it is the only way he might quit smoking so much.You should just start smoking with him. You would probably enjoy it very much. It is not as bad as people want you to believe it is. Danger wise, it is much safer than alcohol. Give it a try before you make a decision.I think you should tell him that you just hate who he becomes when he-s on it. That you like the sober him, not the high him.

Honestly ranting about him getting -addicted- will get you know where. Mostly because it is not an addictive substance, it-s just enjoyable and entertaining so people like to do it a lot(for the same reason people watch TV or play video games a lot).dont worry its just a phase, everyone is smoking pot right now,try to offer him something else he values more instead of getting high as a substitute like if he doesnt smoke for a week you-ll do something for him or you can try negative reinforcement like refusing to do things if he smokes but overall I wouldnt worry too much.tell him if he really loves you he should see someone for help.Like most relationships, the first thing you should do is just tell him how you feel. Tell him that his smoking makes you uncomfortable, and that you don-t like him being high--or whatever you really feel. No matter what, don-t make the whole thing about him. I mean, if he-s smoking with friends, then he-s obviously feeling pressure.

If you-re totally sure he knows this is about you being uncomfortable, and not about him doing something -wrong-, and he still doesn-t seem to care, leave him. You don-t need anyone who doesn-t care about how you feel.

If he-s just feeling pressured by friends, though, then stick by him, and tell him you-ll help him out of it. After that, it-s pretty much his choice.

Good luck. I know how this is. :)

/-3You don-t. Let it grow!

How do I get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed? -

My mum keeps smoking behind my back? -

My mum keeps smoking behind my back? -

how can i get my mum to stop smoking behind my back? she keeps doing it when i go to a friends place and then when i find them in the toilet she says that it probly came from the pipes, but in the end she admits it.

i just found a whole heap of lighters in her bedroom and handbag, so i hid them in a little cardboard box with this weird hair metallic streaky thing for 11year olds (doubt she-d look in there!!)

i cry all day everyday when i find out she does it, i even started cutting myself. i tried telling her how i feel and she promised that she wouldnt do it because she cant smoke them apparently they are discusting but why does she keep smoking them!!!!!!!!!!

she has let me down so much i just feel so sad and alone. if i tell anyone they will tell her and i will be in humungous trouble. i really dont want her to smoke. i even have to go through her draws and handbag to check it.
everytime i get home from school or my friends place i check the toilets at my house.

she isnt frustrated or stressed, she shouldnt have a reason.
i just........... dont want anything to happen to her i feel so sad and i just want it to stop.

how can i make her stop? it really interfears with my life and socialness.
please help me.You shouldn-t be cutting yourself. It-s stupid. And hurting yourself won-t make the problem go away.
Sounds to me like you don-t feel any better.

I tell my mum to stop but she won-t. Smoking is addictive. Nicotine is more addictive than other drugs.

Your mother will stop when she has the power to do.

How is it interfering with your life? It-s only interfering because you-re letting it. Something your mum does for herself shouldn-t affect you.
My mum-s smoking doesn-t effect me.

Just tell her that you want her to PLEASE try for you, and you will always be there for her.
Try some nicorette gum and patches to help with the cravings.

Your mum lies, because she doesn-t want to disappoint you, because she probably knows you get upset. Which obviously you do.
You cut yourself and then cry, and your mum doesn-t want to feel like she-s disappointed you so she lies.

We-re human. We lie. We make mistakes.

Give your mum a break.
She-s an adult. She-ll stop when she wants.See my dear ..
self realization is more important in anybody . those who don-t realize that they will keep doing it . what ever we tell it will not reach to their ear.
so what you do .. take a drastic step .
give her final warning like requiting way .

mom do you want to stop the smoking or do you want me to start .
if she really loves you she will think abt you and quit the smoking .
otherwise ask her what help she want to stop the smoking .
look everybody have some weak points . we must use that as a weapon
try this and get back to me . it depends how openly you talk to your mom.

all the best
god bless youIn the UK, and in fancy countries based on th UK and domination and slavery, it is natural to smke secretly. If someon smokes openly, they are marked as a villain. Be patient with Mum. Do not expect her to bow to you because you hate her. Try a trick. Ask her to let you smoke too, then she will offer you one, and all the liquor you wish. Then when you are tearing your stomach up in shame she will cease. But ask her, that is how to mark a villain. (Mark: 3:19)really dont cut yourself not ur fault bad idead if ur mom wants to smoke let her ruin her life not yours think about it all the time your stuck on oh mom quit smoking shes not gonna listen n u jus lose out on time with friends or whatever as for the toilets skuk that take them n break the ciggs in half i did it to my mom sure she got pissed but she eventually jus stopped buying them but then of course my mom fears me because im agressive n stonger than her

My mum keeps smoking behind my back? -